Teaching Polite Requests to Your ESL Students

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Teaching Polite Requests to Your ESL Students

Expressing polite requests is an important building block for your ESL students to achieve natural, everyday speech. This is especially important in English, where each form of request (using would, could, can, may, might) is used in a different context.

Our M2.1 -Requests-Would-Could-Can-May-Might lesson, filed under our Verbs-Modals category is designed for teaching polite requests to your ESL students.
In English, we use can to express informal requests (Can I borrow your book?) and could for more formal requests (Could I borrow your book?). Our lesson begins by outlining this distinction:
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Teaching polite requests with I as the subject
After introducing the basic distinction between informal and formal requests we introduce the 4 modals used to express polite requests with I. Can I for informal requests, Could I for more formal requests, May I for even more formal requests and Might I for very formal requests. We then explore the 3 modals that we use when requesting permission Can I / Could I / May I (May I go to the washroom?). To practice these different modals we use a number of situational examples and have the student pick which modal + verb construction is the most appropriate for each situation:
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 Teaching polite requests with you as the subject
We now introduce the 4 modals used to express polite requests with you as the subject. Can you for informal requests, Could you for more formal requests, Would you for even more formal requests and Will you for very formal requests. We then move on to explore polite requests using the construction of Would you mind. We use this construction when asking for permission (Would you mind if I opened the window?) and when asking for someone to do something (Would you mind opening the window?). Note that we use the past simple in the Would you mind… asking for permission construction and verb-ing in the Would you mind… when asking someone to do something construction:
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We hope that you enjoy teaching polite requests to your ESL students using our Verbs-Modals series. As always, feedback is very appreciated either here or by using our support form.

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